an intervention, a lullaby

circumstances make decsions for you.
other people who create circumstances make decsions for you.

but if every one is in control of someone elses cirumctances,
do you ever truely make your own decsion?
of course you do.

ok, so you make your own personal - all you're choice - decsion,
that effects someone else, you have added a variable to someone elses life/situation, that
- had you made a different/opposing decsion - would not have been there.

does that make sense?
everything effects something.
chaing reaction. cause and effect:

rudimentairy concepts taught in elementary schools
to children to niave to grasp the profundancy of the contept.

so...this decsion is made for you (unbeknownst to your knowledge)
and your reaction is to fight it, natuarl instinct, anything we have not decided for ourselves, personally, attacks our principles of self advocacy that have been shoved down our throats since we can remember.

you cant change the circumstance, and frankly if you had been there, the same conclusion would have been reached.
the only differance is that you would have had the peace of mind that you had a say in your surroundings.
the peace of compromise, and self advocacy, that you have so systimaticly been robbed of.

having analyzed this on a small scale reffering to a shedualing problem, could the concept not be applied to a broader cirumstance, say polotics or even - if you stretch it, physics - although my knowledge of either topic is slim and patheticly lacking conviction.

it was just a thought
and more a lecture to myself on perspective and the like.